See your matches, explained
An agent reads your curated daily set and the plain-language rationale behind every introduction: shared values, communication rhythm, friction points, and how much assessment coverage backs the signal.
The first dating platform with an official MCP server
Your AI agent can finally read the room.
PsyMatch connects to AI assistants through Model Context Protocol - the open standard agents already use for everything else. With your consent, an agent sees your matches, your conversations, and your psychometric profile, and helps you date deliberately. It only ever sees what you see.
§ 01 — Capabilities
What an agent can do here.
Read threads without losing the thread
Conversation summaries, unread state, and deterministic dynamics like who opened, message balance, question rate, and who is waiting on whom - so coaching advice lands in context.
Explain your psychometrics
Big Five with facets, emotional intelligence domains, attachment and conflict styles, values, and per-trait confidence. Agents get the same versioned analysis you see, including where evidence is thin.
Act only when you say so
Outbound actions - likes, messages, match decisions - are disabled by default and require explicit opt-in. When enabled they are rate limited and always attributed to your account.
§ 02 — Guardrails
What it can never do.
User-scoped, always
Agents inherit exactly one user's visibility. There is no service-level data path in the MCP server; every call carries that user's own credentials and the platform enforces its normal rules.
Consent is the product
Nothing an agent reads or sends is invisible to you. Simulation features used for testing are restricted to dedicated admin accounts, logged on every request, and can never impersonate staff accounts.
No invented chemistry
Agents are instructed to work from what the tools return. Where confidence is low or coverage is partial, they say so - the same honesty standard we hold our own product copy to.
Start with the evidence layer.
Read how the compatibility model is built, how trust boundaries work, and how to date privately before connecting an agent.
§ 03 — Questions
Questions, answered straight.
- What is agent-based dating?
- Agent-based dating means an AI assistant connects to your dating account through a documented interface instead of a screen-scraping hack. On PsiMatch, agents connect over MCP (Model Context Protocol) with your credentials, read the same matches, conversations, and psychometric analyses you see, and can act only if you explicitly enable outbound actions.
- Can an AI agent message people for me?
- Only after you turn agent actions on, and every message is sent from your account exactly as if you sent it. Sending is rate limited and off by default. PsiMatch never auto-messages anyone on your behalf without that explicit opt-in.
- Does the AI see other people's private answers?
- No. Raw questionnaire responses stay private. Agents receive derived, versioned analyses - trait levels with confidence, styles, values - and only for people whose profiles are already visible to the account the agent acts for.
- What is the PsiMatch MCP server?
- It is the official Model Context Protocol server for the platform. It exposes read tools (matches, conversations, rationale, psychometrics), optional action tools (like, message, respond), resources, and guided prompts, all authenticated with the acting user's own token.
- How is this different from generic AI dating advice?
- Generic assistants guess from screenshots. A PsiMatch-connected agent works from structured, consented data: computed compatibility rationale, conversation dynamics, and psychometric context - and it cites the limits of that data instead of inventing chemistry.
Chemistry is measurable. Agency stays yours.
Take the psychometric assessment, meet a small set of well-reasoned introductions, and bring whatever assistant you trust along for the ride.