01
Start with signal, not volume
Most dating fatigue comes from too many low-fit options. A compatibility-first model reduces noise and raises decision quality.
Instead of trying to evaluate everyone, focus on candidates with stronger alignment in values, relationship goals, and communication style.
02
Define your non-negotiables before you browse
Set clear boundaries around intent, lifestyle, and communication preferences before your first week on the app.
- Relationship intent
- Lifestyle rhythm and priorities
- Communication expectations
03
Treat your first week as calibration
Save likes for genuine fit and review which profiles generated meaningful conversation.
Adjust profile detail and prompts based on what attracts aligned responses, not just fast responses.